Can we ever
really compare cultures? Is it fruitful to say the US does X, and France does
Y?
In a
conversation with a friend the other day, he brought up that this comparison
between France and the US is like comparing apples and oranges.
And yet,
it's something I hear French people constantly do, and something I'm obviously
doing in this blog. So is this a useful exercise, or are we just looking to
draw parallels that don't exist?
It's true
that every culture is unique and I
think can only be fully grasped in its context. When taken out of this, it
becomes meaningless, or much harder to decode. I think of my students watching
American films and series and not catching many of the social codes because
it's not understood in context, with enough background on American culture.
We can say
that this is where stereotypes come from. After all, as Raymonde Carroll puts
it well in her book Evidences Invisibles,
stereotypes are really just examples of misunderstandings between two cultures.
If I say the French typically do X, I'm saying just as much about Americans
(and what we don't do) as I am about the French.
I also
think that cultural comparison is like language. There are times when it may
not be incredibly productive to compare France and the US (say if someone wants
to argue that Americans are racist, a statement I've heard often over here).
For me, this is in the same way that our native language can cause interference
and sometimes, bad, literal translations into a second language.
And yet, I
also think these 'bad translations' are inevitable. Our own culture is what we
know, and we can't avoid using it as a model to understand a new culture,
anymore than we can't avoid using our native language to help us understand the
workings of a different language.
In terms of
language, it's important to note where the two diverge (in French we say x but
in English we say y). But in culture, I think it's important to explore why and
for what possible reasons are the two different?
This is
never a finished discussion and it's fraught with possibilities for
overgeneralization. Nevertheless, I think the exercise in itself is what's
important. Even if you don't end up with a satisfying explanation for why Americans
do this and the French do that, the fact that you're interested in
understanding in the first place is what matters to me.
If you're
here, I hope this kind of understanding is what you're looking for.
I'm so happy to get a link to your blog because I've missed you these past four years and am looking forward to hearing what's going on in your life. But you should know it took me ages to figure out who JJ (in my head: Jay Jay) could be :)
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ReplyDeleteYay! A blog! I couldn't agree more that it's all in the details. The cultural differences are sometimes all the more surprising because of the outside similarities. Looking forward to reading about your experiences :-)
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ReplyDeleteJess--Can't believe it has taken me this long to read your blog. Merci mille fois pour l'invitation! J'adore tes observations! Continue! Je t'embrasse!
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